I m falling in luv w/ a great guy eventually

I was struggling whether to release this to the public for quite awhile. I posted it up for couple of hours and then taken it down because I wasn't feeling 100% comfy to release it at that time. However, my heart tell me that I can't hide anymore; and I have to be fair with my great guy. Also, many of you have come to ask me directly. Even for those, who didn't ask me, may have noticed it. Instead of telling all of you individually, I will say something here to make my life easier. Another important reason is that I want to share my happiness with all of you.

Going through lots of serious thoughts, I've started a relationship recently. After almost three years of being single and waiting for God's guidance, I became very careful to consider this dating and relationship issue. Careful to the point that I skeptically questioned whether there was anyone in the world could meet my requirement or criteria. However, God proved that I was wrong. It was not my requirement or criteria. Everything should be running base on God's standard and according to his plan. God brought Franklin to Horeb at the end of 2004, but Franklin only came to my memory many months after. He first came to my mind in spring conference 2005. His leadership skill and maturity shown in "bed side cell group sharing" was really impressive considering just a short period of time of being a Christian. However, I wasn’t thinking anything beyond friendship. Therefore, I rejected him almost immediately after I realized the first sign of his interest.

Through the last couple months, God dramatically change me and Franklin. I gradually notify many good qualities in Franklin which would open the possibility of starting a relationship. Furthermore, I am so touched by his genuine care, support and prayers through my difficult times. So far, no one can do a better job than him by putting my words in his heart and showing his care in action. I thank God to bring such a great guy to me.

Recently, I am reading a book called, "Boy Meets Girl, Say Hello to Courtship". This is a great book that I think all girls should read and force your bf to do so (if possible). I only finished up to chapter 3 because I have to wait for someone who is slow in reading (yes... it's you!!!). According to the book, I realize that my relationship with Franklin is just a beginning – a beginning of a journey that should be God-centered, not self-centered. Dear God, please continue to show the light ahead of us, and use us to glorify you.