Letting Go...

I am so bored with my studies of mental health, that's why I got into Jenny's Blog. And I started to read her writing from 2001... You can tell how bored I am now!!! :P
In her Feb 11, 2004 diary, I found this article which is really appealing to me, since I am in the middle of not wanting to "Let Go". I know that I can't stay in this situation anymore, I am wasting my time and wasting the time to serve my dear God. But "letting go" is a difficult process, and I need God to show me the way...

LETTING GO is not to stop caring--it means I can't do it for someone else.
LETTING GO is not to cut myself off--it's the realization that I can't control another.
LETTING GO is not to enable--but to allow learning from natural consequences.
LETTING GO is to admit powerlessness--which means the outcome is not in my hands.
LETTING GO is not to try to change or blame another--it's to make the most of myself.
LETTING GO is not to fix--but to be supportive; it's not to judge--but to allow another to be a human being.
LETTING GO is not to be in the middle, arranging the outcome--but to allow others to effect their own destinies.
LETTING GO is not to be protective--it's to permit another to face reality.
LETTING GO is not deny---but to accept.
LETTING GO is not to nag, scold or argue---but instead to search out my own shortcomings and correct them.
LETTING GO is not to criticize and regulate anybody---but to try to become what I dream I can be.
LETTING GO is not to regret the past---but to grow and live for the future.
LETTING GO is to fear less and live more.
Author unknown(from one of my favorite books--"Lists to live by" (The Third Collection))